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Permission to Parent

Not long ago Anna and I came across and article by Rod Arters which we thought was funny and interesting, but also something a lot of parents need to see. Some of these seem like no brainers, but it’s nice to see Biblical foundation for them any way. (I haven’t taken the time to look up each of these Scriptures to validate that they say what the author claims they say, but I encourage you to do so.) Without further adu…

God’s Word gives parents permission to:

  • Instruct our children (Deut 6:7; Eph 6:4)
  • Correct our children (Prov 3:11-12)
  • Discipline our children (Eph 6:4; Heb 12:7-10)
  • Ask tough questions to our children and address poor behavior (1Sam 2:22-24; Judg 14:3)
  • Make the decision in where to lead our families (Joshua 24:15)
  • Say “NO” to our children (Col 2:21) You can say “NO” to activities, friendships, clothing, music, etc.
  • Confront our children (1Sam 2:22-24)
  • Speak with authority toward our children. After all, God placed us “in charge.” (Deut. 6:7)
  • Expect respect from our children (Ex 20:12; Eph 6:1-3)
  • Enforce consequences on our children’s sin (Lev 10:1-3; 1Sam 15)
  • Change our minds (Ex 32:14; Jer 26:19; Amos 7:3,6)
  • Make judgments regarding our children (Zech 8:16)
  • Expect more from our children (Gen 4:6-7)
  • Treat each child uniquely, according to their needs (Gen 48:1-19; John 21:20-23)
  • Inspect our child’s bedroom (tent) for things “under the ban” (Joshua 7)
  • Determine what our children wear (Gen 3:21; Lev 8:1-9) eat (Lev 11, Acts 10:9-15) do (Ex 3:1-10) and where they go (Gen 12:1)
  • Be consistent with our children (Heb 13:8)
  • Set boundaries for our children (Hos 2:6-7) Curfew, modesty, etc.
  • Test the heart of our children (Deut 8:2, 13:3)
  • Require a pleasant countenance from our children (Gen 4:6)
  • Require an appropriate tone of voice from our children (Ex 20:12; Eph 4:29)
  • Expect immediate obedience from our children (1Sam 9:1-5)

[12-17-07 Edit – It has come to my attention that I may have misrepresented the original article and presented these bullet points out of context. I do apologize for any misunderstanding. As stated in the comment below by Mr. Arters himself, these scriptures are not meant to be “proof texts” for the point listed. Please see his comment for a more complete explanation, and check out his website, www.rodarters.com , for the complete article. It is worth reading. I don’t post it here simply for time’s sake.)

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